"Mother" - a phase, a feeling which every girl wants to experience in her life, and I too remember the day, when I got to know that I am going to be a mother soon, my happiness was beyond any expression that day. It was indeed a special feeling and a question to myself, am I actually going to be a mom soon?
Well, those were the beautiful 9 months of my life, but then I had to take care of a few things too in order to ensure everything is perfect for the arrival of my darling. I started listing the things which should be needed. So that it wouldn’t get difficult for my family to handle everything when I am in the hospital. Here I have listed few things that I thought were important at that point in time.
Preparing nursing bag:- Night suit, Blanket, Towel, Undergarments, baby clothes, swaddles, toiletries, waterproof small mat, Waterproof bed pad, soft pillow for baby, Diaper & Wipes, Feeding Bottle, Mosquito net for baby, New born car seat, maternity inner wears, one set of fresh clothes
Some important stuff that I added to my nursing or say hospital bag - I was stuck by the creativity bug and hence I made all the dresses for the baby from my husband’s and father in law's shirts. As it’s a tradition in our family to use used clothes on babies smaller than 40 days - me with the help of my mother-in-law prepared the small napkins, shirts, pants, caps and everything required for a new born. Making clothes for your little one is such a wonderful experience and you can also keep it for memory sake. I have preserved everything I made so that I can show it to my kid when he grows up.
The feeling and happiness on the arrival of the first baby is always very special and it will be. I also made a schedule for everyone in the family so that we don’t miss out anything in last minute hassles. However no matter how much planning you do, you always tend to forget one or more important thing that would be required by the baby. But that’s okay; you can always make last minute purchase, after all that’s what parenting after all means- be ready for any situation thrown at you. Don’t forget to capture all this moments it will be your memories for rest of your life.
FAQ's
Q.What inspired you the most during your pregnancy journey?
Ans.The sheer joy of becoming a mother and the anticipation of welcoming a new life kept me motivated and filled with happiness throughout those nine months.
Q.What essentials should I pack in my hospital/nursing bag?
Ans.Some essentials include a night suit, towel, undergarments, baby clothes, swaddles, toiletries, a waterproof mat, bed pad, baby pillow, diapers, wipes, feeding bottle, mosquito net, newborn car seat, and maternity innerwear.
Q.Why did you choose to make baby clothes from old family shirts?
Ans.It’s a family tradition to use clothes made from used fabric for babies younger than 40 days. Plus, it adds a personal, emotional touch and makes beautiful keepsakes for the future.
Q.What was the most memorable part of preparing for your baby’s arrival?
Ans.Creating handmade baby clothes from my husband’s and father-in-law’s shirts with the help of my mother-in-law was an unforgettable bonding experience.
Q.Is it necessary to prepare a family schedule before childbirth?
Ans.Yes, having a schedule helps avoid last-minute chaos and ensures that everyone knows their role and what needs to be done during and after delivery.
Q.What emotional preparations are important before becoming a mom?
Ans.Acknowledging your feelings, staying connected with loved ones, and embracing the changes with a positive mindset are all key to emotional preparedness.
Q.Why is it important to capture moments during the pregnancy and birth journey?
Ans.These moments are priceless memories you’ll cherish forever. Photos and keepsakes help you relive the beautiful journey and share it with your child later.
Q.What advice would you give to first-time mothers?
Ans.Enjoy every moment, prepare as much as you can, and be kind to yourself—parenting is about learning and loving, not perfection.
